"Bad-faith DNWs will not be enforced, such as requesting a canon m/m pairing and DNWing m/m and genderbends"
I can't tell if this example is listing these as separate things to not DNW or if this is one entire example, because I don't really understand how you could even request a m/m pairing and then say "but no m/m and genderbends" because uh... then you can't have a fic??? If you don't want genderbends for a m/m pairing that would make it m/f or f/f then it HAS to be m/m...? Right...? So lost 😠As a trans person who likes m/m but doesn't read genderbends or trans fics because hello dysphoria city, is that going to be considered bad-faith to ask for m/m but DNW genderbends/trans? Not sure yet whether I want to commit to doing this exchange, but I do want to make sure whether I'm able to DNW what I need for my mental health before I put serious consideration into it. Thanks!
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I can't tell if this example is listing these as separate things to not DNW or if this is one entire example, because I don't really understand how you could even request a m/m pairing and then say "but no m/m and genderbends" because uh... then you can't have a fic??? If you don't want genderbends for a m/m pairing that would make it m/f or f/f then it HAS to be m/m...? Right...? So lost 😠As a trans person who likes m/m but doesn't read genderbends or trans fics because hello dysphoria city, is that going to be considered bad-faith to ask for m/m but DNW genderbends/trans? Not sure yet whether I want to commit to doing this exchange, but I do want to make sure whether I'm able to DNW what I need for my mental health before I put serious consideration into it. Thanks!